Does the distinction between men and women disappear in the higher planes?

We are rolled into one, the experience of male and female, there is no difference, it is used only to gain experience on your earth plane. The oneness you seek is within you to experience now, try for a moment to forget your male and your female sides, think of yourself as a spirit of oneness and you will begin to realise there is no need to be one or the other. You are you and that is all that matters.